somebody that i used to know :: bob’s beans, post-it style bootlegging and the creative process
In one of the greatest stories in our family lore is the tale of “Bob’s Beans.” My wife’s mom, Gloria, has for years and years made a delicious baked bean, hamburger, and bacon concoction that redefines savory goodness. It’s like Bush’s Baked Beans on steroids. As far as I can tell, the family has been [...]
big boy moments :: why i tell my boys to man up, nancy
The primary difference between Moms and Dads, as far as I can tell, is the length of leash with which we are comfortable letting our kids run. While 99% of the time Dads know that their children can run far afield with no more than a few near misses, the occasional potential debilitating accident, and [...]
eating gravy is an act of worship :: thanksgiving precedes joy
Certain stories in our family have a way of finding new legs year after year at our family gatherings. One such story has its roots in my parents’ small farm town upbringing in the upper northwestern corner of Minnesota, where the North Dakota plains have invaded the landscape, and families earn their bread in the rich [...]
the day i knew what i was for :: pursue joy :: part 4
p It was like a bomb hit my office. Both scary and exhilarating. And I know that those of you who visited my office 15 years ago at Emmaus Lutheran Church are certain I’m talking about my decorating style, what with my, um… free-form approach to filing sheet music and whatnot. But that’s not it [...]
through water and fire
October 30, 2011. Living Hope Church in St. Michael-Albertville, MN. Sunday night service. This message is taken from Isaiah 43:1-7. It’s a message to Christ followers who are going through extremely difficult circumstances… times the old testament writers would refer to in poetic, idiomatic language… “going through water and fire.” In these desperate times, Isaiah 43 brings [...]
make the moments :: carlos whittaker, taylor swift, mascara, and little boots
I always want to be a better dad. When I finally achieve “best dad of all time” staus, I’ll still want to be a better dad. Today’s post is meant to inspire us dads to be intentional in our dadliness. My friend Carlos Whittaker (known in the Twittersphere as @loswhit, father of viral video star [...]
i’m shouting from the roof :: pursue joy :: part 3
I’m wildly in love with my wife. She’s smart, she’s quick-witted, she’s beautiful, she loves Jesus, she’s a great mom, she is discerning, she’s wise, she really loves people, she’s beautiful, she cherishes relationships, she’s not satisfied with “fine” or good enough,” she loves our kids intentionally, she’s beautiful… I can literally do this [...]








